I was recently asked a very good question by someone relatively new to rope, regarding how to manage the emotional impacts whilst untying a rope bottom. In that discussion, and in many similar ones with other people, it occurred to me just how little emphasis we put on the untying process. Which is sad. Because, […]
I was in a class with DevynStone on building M/s relationships. He explained his process and at one point in discussing consent, he said how we all have our own consent. I love that! Whenever I’ve taught consent or gotten into those in depth discussions with people, I’m always mindful of just how each of us look […]
I am sometimes asked how I maintain my jute rope. Below is a brief guide of processes I use and/or recommend. Washing Jute Either wash by hand, or place your ropes in a pillow case and use a washing machine on a cold cycle with a non biological detergent. The pillow case will prevent any […]
Rope play is only 100% safe when you are completely aware of all the risks of whatever you choose to do, and you mitigate as fully as possible against those risks, factoring in all possible circumstamces and accidents that could happen. This is not easy. Nigh on impossible to achieve, in fact. Rope tops and […]
Because of the lockdown and coronavirus, I’ve been unable to tie my friends ,sadly. I took the opportunity to try out designs on a new Teddy i bought myself for my birthday instead, which I have enjoyed previously. It was so much fun, and lovely to enjoy cuddles too – not the same as human […]
By people of colour I mean people that are not white. Visually, people of colour have darker skin tones due to pigmentation in their skin. And yet, for centuries, the pigmentation in their skin has been enough to victimise, terrorise, enslave, demonise and abuse people of colour. In the wake of the murder of George […]
If you’re new (I’m suggesting on your local scene for less than 6-12 months?) it’s really difficult to find rope partners. Like unbelievably so. Genuine ones, not clinical psychopaths – which is significant as you’ll see in due course. It’s kinda like getting your first job, you think; once you’ve got some experience you’ll land […]
My first tie on someone since my accident on one of my close friends and bunnies. Taking the simple gauntlet tie and corset tie in a decorative rope session.
Self tie suspension with in flight adaptions, outdoors this time. It’s all about finding the perfect tree in a private location at the best time. The weather was perfect too. Here, at the same location, I worked with one of my models and her partner as a mentor, to create her first beautiful contorted full […]
Collaborating with one of my models and local photographers, to remove the stigma rope has and find the beauty it holds. Gorgone’s butterfly harness and arm binder.